TOUCH:Touching is a powerful, subtle and complex form of communication. Touch can be used to convey a surprising variety of messages. Different touches can be used to express agreement, affection, or attraction; to offer support; to emphasise a point; to call for attention or participation; to direct; to greet; to congratulate; to establish or reinforce power-relations and to negotiate levels of intimacy.
Even the lightest touch can have a influence on our perceptions and relationships. Even a light, brief touch on the arm during an encounter between strangers has both immediate and lasting positive effects. Polite requests for help or directions, produced much more positive results when accompanied by a light touch on the arm.
When flirting, it is therefore important to remember that the language of touch, if used correctly, can help to advance the relationship, but use of this wrongly and you could ruin your chances forever.
Here are a few basic rules-of-thumb for first encounters with strangers of the opposite sex.
The first rule, for both sexes, is: touch, but be careful. Women are much less comfortable about being touched than men. Take care to avoid any touches which may seem threatening or over-familiar. Men shouldn't interpret women's touching as sexual invitations.
Appropriate touching will have positive benefits, but touching should initially be restricted to universally acceptable areas and levels. As a general rule, the arm is the safest place to touch A brief, light touch on the arm, to draw attention, express support or emphasise a point, is likely to be acceptable and to enhance your companion's positive feelings towards you.
Unless your companion is exceptionally shy and reserved, negative reactions to a simple arm-touch such as pulling the arm away probably indicate dislike or distrust.
If your companion finds you likeable or attractive, after a brief arm-touch, watch for other positive body-language signals, such as increased eye-contact, moving closer to you, more open posture or postural echo, more smiling, etc. Your arm-touch may even prompt an increase in verbal intimacy, so listen for any disclosure of personal information, or more personal questions.
If there are signs of a positive reaction to your arm-touch, you can try another arm-touch, this time touch a little longer. If this results in more signs ofintimacy from your companion, you might consider moving to a hand-touch.
A hand-touch, other than a sign of greeting or parting, is more personal than an arm-touch. By touching your companion's hand, you are opening negotiations towards more intimacy, so touch the hand lightly and briefly. Make it a question, not an order.
A negative reaction to your hand-touch, does not necessarily mean that your companion dislikes you, but it can indicate that your attempt to advance to the next level is either premature or unwelcome. A very positive reaction, can be taken as permission to try another hand-touch at an appropriate moment later on.
Positive reactions to a second hand-touch such as moving closer to you, reciprocal arm- and hand-touching, along with more personal questions, more disclosure of personal information and more expression of emotion - can be taken as permission to proceed, with caution, to nextlevel of intimacy. The next stages might involve a hand-squeeze or hand-hold, repeated twice before moving on to an arm over the shoulders, or perhaps a brief knee-touch. However any positive reactions to any of these touches can not be taken as permission to grope.)
Perform each touch two times before moving to the next level. By repeating the same touch, with a slightly longer period of time, you can check that reactions are still positive and acceptable. the double touch also tells your companion that the first touch was not accidental or unconscious, that you are looking for an increase in intimacy. Repeating the same touch before moving to the next level is a way of saying "Are you sure?".
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Monday
FLIRTING TIPS- FLIRTING POSTURES!
FLIRTING POSTURE:
Most of us can maintain an expression of polite interest, such as nodding when we do not agree! On the other hand, we tend to be less conscious of what the rest of our body is doing.
We may be smiling and nodding, but we show our disagreement with tightly folded arms. This is known as sending mixed signals, while we're busy controlling our words and faces, our real feelings show in our posture.
When flirting, you should be on watch for signs of this in their posture, and try to send the right signals with your own posture.
Their mixed signal can give you advance warning when your approach isn't working. If their head is turned towards you, while the rest of the body pointed in another direction, this is a sign that you do not have your partner's full attention.
Even just the feet starting to turn and "point" away from you can be a sign that their attention is directed elsewhere, or that they are thinking about moving away. Leaning backwards and supporting the head on one hand are signs of boredom. Closed postures with arms folded and legs tightly crossed express disagreement or dislike.
Positive signs to keep an eye for are their body is oriented towards you, particularly if they are also leaning forward, in an open posture.
These are signs of attentiveness and interest or liking. Females are more likely to tilt their heads to one side when they are interested in the person they are talking to. Do not automatically assume that these signs indicate sexual interest.
Another positive sign is when your partner unconsciously adopts a posture similar to yours. Mirror imaging where one person's left side copies the other person's right side - are the strongest indication of harmony and rapport between the pair.
If the position of your partner's body and limbs appear to mirror your own, particularly if their posture is the exact of yours, the chances are that they feel an closeness to you.
When flirting, you can also use mirror image to create a feeling of togetherness and harmony. Even though people are not consciously aware of someone deliberately copying their postures, they look upon the person who does this more favourably.
When you copy their postures, they will not only feel more at ease in your company, but will perceive you as more like-minded.
Males adopt postures which make them appear taller, larger and more impressive, such as placing hands in pockets with elbows out to enlarge the chest, or leaning one hand at above shoulder height on a wall to appear taller and more imposing.
Females either adopt postures which make them look smaller, such as drawing the knees towards the body when seated, or postures which draw attention to physical attributes, such as arching the back to display the breasts, or to draw attention to their legs crossing and re-crossing them.
Most of us can maintain an expression of polite interest, such as nodding when we do not agree! On the other hand, we tend to be less conscious of what the rest of our body is doing.
We may be smiling and nodding, but we show our disagreement with tightly folded arms. This is known as sending mixed signals, while we're busy controlling our words and faces, our real feelings show in our posture.
When flirting, you should be on watch for signs of this in their posture, and try to send the right signals with your own posture.
Their mixed signal can give you advance warning when your approach isn't working. If their head is turned towards you, while the rest of the body pointed in another direction, this is a sign that you do not have your partner's full attention.
Even just the feet starting to turn and "point" away from you can be a sign that their attention is directed elsewhere, or that they are thinking about moving away. Leaning backwards and supporting the head on one hand are signs of boredom. Closed postures with arms folded and legs tightly crossed express disagreement or dislike.
Positive signs to keep an eye for are their body is oriented towards you, particularly if they are also leaning forward, in an open posture.
These are signs of attentiveness and interest or liking. Females are more likely to tilt their heads to one side when they are interested in the person they are talking to. Do not automatically assume that these signs indicate sexual interest.
Another positive sign is when your partner unconsciously adopts a posture similar to yours. Mirror imaging where one person's left side copies the other person's right side - are the strongest indication of harmony and rapport between the pair.
If the position of your partner's body and limbs appear to mirror your own, particularly if their posture is the exact of yours, the chances are that they feel an closeness to you.
When flirting, you can also use mirror image to create a feeling of togetherness and harmony. Even though people are not consciously aware of someone deliberately copying their postures, they look upon the person who does this more favourably.
When you copy their postures, they will not only feel more at ease in your company, but will perceive you as more like-minded.
Males adopt postures which make them appear taller, larger and more impressive, such as placing hands in pockets with elbows out to enlarge the chest, or leaning one hand at above shoulder height on a wall to appear taller and more imposing.
Females either adopt postures which make them look smaller, such as drawing the knees towards the body when seated, or postures which draw attention to physical attributes, such as arching the back to display the breasts, or to draw attention to their legs crossing and re-crossing them.
Wednesday
FLIRTING TIPS- FLIRTING GESTURES!
FLIRTING GESTURES: The gestures that we use can signal interest, attraction and invitation - or discomfort, dislike and rejection.
When flirting, it is important to be aware of these cues, both in "reading" their body-language and in controlling the messages you are sending with your own gestures.
In conversation, gestures are mainly used to enliven, clarify and "punctuate" our speech, or to show understanding to what the other person is saying. In a flirtatious encounter, the amount of gestures, the directions of the gestures and the co-ordination of gestures can indicate the degree of interest and involvement your partner feels towards you.
Generally, however, someone who is interested in you will be more lively and animated in conversation, using more gestures when speaking in order to keep your attention, and more responsive gestures to show interest when you are speaking.
Similarly, you can signal in your partner, and keep their attention focused on you, by enhancing your speech with appropriate gestures: shifting your hands or head slightly at the end of sentences, using downward hand movements to emphasise a point. When your partner is speaking, you can show responsiveness by nodding in agreement, throwing up your hands in surprise, bringing them together in a "silent clap" of appreciation, etc.
Nodding can be used to control conversations. If you make single, brief nods while your partner is speaking, this a simple signs of attentiveness, which will maintain the flow of communication from the speaker. Double nods will change the rate at which the other person speaks, usually speeding up the flow, while triple nods or single, slow nods often interrupt the flow altogether, confusing the speakers that they might stop in their tracks. So, if you want to express interest and keep them talking with you, stick to brief single nods.
You can also watch for gestures which indicate anxiety and nervousness, such as hand-clasping movements and palm-rubbing. Basically anxious gestures are directed towards the anxious person's own body, while movements, directed away from the body, are a sign of confidence. As well as watching for these signals in your partner, you can control the impression you are making by using more confident, outward gestures.
As with posture, the greatest involvement and harmony is achieved when gestures of one person are echoed or reflected by the other. You may have noticed that this tends to happen a lot between people who like each other. Watch lovers in a bar or pub, and you will see that they often tend to lift their drinks and sip at the same time, and that many of their other body movements and gestures will be similar.
You can use this technique as a highly effective flirting technique. If you feel the conversation is not flowing easily, or seems awkward and uncomfortable, try to be more sensitive to the patterns of their gestures and body movements, and to reflect these in your own body language.
If the person that you are flirting with begins to copy their body language with yours, this is a sign that they are comfortable with you. Do not assume that this necessarily indicates sexual interest.
Female hair-flipping and head-tossing were among the gestures most often regarded as sexually flirtatious, along with repeated leg-crossing and movements designed to draw attention to their breasts.
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When flirting, it is important to be aware of these cues, both in "reading" their body-language and in controlling the messages you are sending with your own gestures.
In conversation, gestures are mainly used to enliven, clarify and "punctuate" our speech, or to show understanding to what the other person is saying. In a flirtatious encounter, the amount of gestures, the directions of the gestures and the co-ordination of gestures can indicate the degree of interest and involvement your partner feels towards you.
Generally, however, someone who is interested in you will be more lively and animated in conversation, using more gestures when speaking in order to keep your attention, and more responsive gestures to show interest when you are speaking.
Similarly, you can signal in your partner, and keep their attention focused on you, by enhancing your speech with appropriate gestures: shifting your hands or head slightly at the end of sentences, using downward hand movements to emphasise a point. When your partner is speaking, you can show responsiveness by nodding in agreement, throwing up your hands in surprise, bringing them together in a "silent clap" of appreciation, etc.
Nodding can be used to control conversations. If you make single, brief nods while your partner is speaking, this a simple signs of attentiveness, which will maintain the flow of communication from the speaker. Double nods will change the rate at which the other person speaks, usually speeding up the flow, while triple nods or single, slow nods often interrupt the flow altogether, confusing the speakers that they might stop in their tracks. So, if you want to express interest and keep them talking with you, stick to brief single nods.
You can also watch for gestures which indicate anxiety and nervousness, such as hand-clasping movements and palm-rubbing. Basically anxious gestures are directed towards the anxious person's own body, while movements, directed away from the body, are a sign of confidence. As well as watching for these signals in your partner, you can control the impression you are making by using more confident, outward gestures.
As with posture, the greatest involvement and harmony is achieved when gestures of one person are echoed or reflected by the other. You may have noticed that this tends to happen a lot between people who like each other. Watch lovers in a bar or pub, and you will see that they often tend to lift their drinks and sip at the same time, and that many of their other body movements and gestures will be similar.
You can use this technique as a highly effective flirting technique. If you feel the conversation is not flowing easily, or seems awkward and uncomfortable, try to be more sensitive to the patterns of their gestures and body movements, and to reflect these in your own body language.
If the person that you are flirting with begins to copy their body language with yours, this is a sign that they are comfortable with you. Do not assume that this necessarily indicates sexual interest.
Female hair-flipping and head-tossing were among the gestures most often regarded as sexually flirtatious, along with repeated leg-crossing and movements designed to draw attention to their breasts.
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FLIRTING TIPS- NON-VERBAL FLIRTING
When members of the opposite sex meet for the first time, they are in a difficult, ambiguous and potentially risky situation.
Neither person knows what the other's intentions and feelings towards them are. Because expressing intentions and feelings verbally involves a high risk of embarrassment or possible rejection, body language becomes the main expression of communication.
Unlike words, body language can signal invitation, acceptance or refusal without being too obvious, without causing offence or making binding commitments.
The non-verbal flirting techniques contained in this section are powerful signals, and please use with caution.
Women should be extra careful when using these signals of interest and attraction as men can and often mistake friendliness for flirting and if your signals of interest are too direct and obvious, men will mistake them for sexual availability.
EYE CONTACT: Your eyes are probably your most important flirting tool. We think that our eyes are primary used for receiving information, but they are also senders of social signals.
How you look at another person, meet their gaze and look away can make all the difference between a successful, enjoyable flirtation and an embarrassing or hurtful moment.
Looking directly into the eyes of another person - is such a powerful act of communication that we normally use it for very brief glances.
Prolonged eye contact between two people indicates intense emotion, and can express love or hostility. Among a crowd of strangers in a public setting, eye contacts will generally last only a fraction of second, and most people avoid making any eye contact at all.
Even from across a crowded room at a party, you can signal your interest in someone merely by making eye contact and attempting to hold your target's gaze for more than one second (do not do this longer, or you will seem threatening).
If the person you are interested maintains eye contact with you for more than one second, the chances are that they might be interested. If after this first contact, your target looks away briefly and then looks back to meet your gaze a second time, you can safely assume that they are interested. If you receive a smile, you can approach your target with some confidence.
If your target avoids making eye contact with you, or looks away after a fraction of a second and does not look back again, you should probably assume that the person is not interested. Unless they are just a very shy person - and some females are wary of signalling any interest in male strangers. The only way to find out is by close observation of your target's behaviour towards others.
Does she consistently avoid direct eye-contact with men? Does he seem nervous, anxious or aloof in his interactions with other women? If so, your target's reluctance to meet your gaze may be nothing personal, and it might be worth approaching, but only with considerable caution.
Once you have approached your target, you will need to make eye contact again in order to strike up a conversation. As soon as your eyes meet, begin to speak. Once a conversation begins, it is normal for eye contact to be broken as the speaker looks away.
In conversations, the person who is speaking looks away more than the person who is listening, and turn-taking is governed by a characteristic pattern of looking, eye contact and looking away.
So, to signal that you have finished speaking and invite a response, look back at your target again. To show interest while your target is speaking, you need to look at their face for about three-quarters of the time, in glances lasting between one and seven seconds.
The person speaking will normally look at you for less than half this time, and direct eye contact will be intermittent, rarely lasting more than one second. When your target has finished speaking, and expects a response, he or she will look at you and make brief eye contact again to indicate that it is your turn.
The basic rules are: glance at the other person's face more when you are listening, glance away more when you are speaking and make brief eye contact to initiate turn-taking. The key words here are "glance" and "brief": avoid prolonged staring either at the other person or away.
The most common mistake people make when flirting is to overdo the eye contact in a premature attempt to increase intimacy.
This only makes the other person feel uncomfortable, and may send misleading signals. Some men also blow their chances by having a conversation with a woman's breasts, rather than her face.
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Neither person knows what the other's intentions and feelings towards them are. Because expressing intentions and feelings verbally involves a high risk of embarrassment or possible rejection, body language becomes the main expression of communication.
Unlike words, body language can signal invitation, acceptance or refusal without being too obvious, without causing offence or making binding commitments.
The non-verbal flirting techniques contained in this section are powerful signals, and please use with caution.
Women should be extra careful when using these signals of interest and attraction as men can and often mistake friendliness for flirting and if your signals of interest are too direct and obvious, men will mistake them for sexual availability.
EYE CONTACT: Your eyes are probably your most important flirting tool. We think that our eyes are primary used for receiving information, but they are also senders of social signals.
How you look at another person, meet their gaze and look away can make all the difference between a successful, enjoyable flirtation and an embarrassing or hurtful moment.
Looking directly into the eyes of another person - is such a powerful act of communication that we normally use it for very brief glances.
Prolonged eye contact between two people indicates intense emotion, and can express love or hostility. Among a crowd of strangers in a public setting, eye contacts will generally last only a fraction of second, and most people avoid making any eye contact at all.
Even from across a crowded room at a party, you can signal your interest in someone merely by making eye contact and attempting to hold your target's gaze for more than one second (do not do this longer, or you will seem threatening).
If the person you are interested maintains eye contact with you for more than one second, the chances are that they might be interested. If after this first contact, your target looks away briefly and then looks back to meet your gaze a second time, you can safely assume that they are interested. If you receive a smile, you can approach your target with some confidence.
If your target avoids making eye contact with you, or looks away after a fraction of a second and does not look back again, you should probably assume that the person is not interested. Unless they are just a very shy person - and some females are wary of signalling any interest in male strangers. The only way to find out is by close observation of your target's behaviour towards others.
Does she consistently avoid direct eye-contact with men? Does he seem nervous, anxious or aloof in his interactions with other women? If so, your target's reluctance to meet your gaze may be nothing personal, and it might be worth approaching, but only with considerable caution.
Once you have approached your target, you will need to make eye contact again in order to strike up a conversation. As soon as your eyes meet, begin to speak. Once a conversation begins, it is normal for eye contact to be broken as the speaker looks away.
In conversations, the person who is speaking looks away more than the person who is listening, and turn-taking is governed by a characteristic pattern of looking, eye contact and looking away.
So, to signal that you have finished speaking and invite a response, look back at your target again. To show interest while your target is speaking, you need to look at their face for about three-quarters of the time, in glances lasting between one and seven seconds.
The person speaking will normally look at you for less than half this time, and direct eye contact will be intermittent, rarely lasting more than one second. When your target has finished speaking, and expects a response, he or she will look at you and make brief eye contact again to indicate that it is your turn.
The basic rules are: glance at the other person's face more when you are listening, glance away more when you are speaking and make brief eye contact to initiate turn-taking. The key words here are "glance" and "brief": avoid prolonged staring either at the other person or away.
The most common mistake people make when flirting is to overdo the eye contact in a premature attempt to increase intimacy.
This only makes the other person feel uncomfortable, and may send misleading signals. Some men also blow their chances by having a conversation with a woman's breasts, rather than her face.
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Monday
FLIRTING TIPS- HOW TO FLIRT!
The first key to successful flirting is not to show off and impress or be a braggart, to show that you like someone. If the person knows that you find them interesting and attractive, they will be more inclined to like you.
You don't have to be a rocket scientists to prove it. You already know that when you are told someone find you attractive, or hear that someone has said something nice or that they admired you, you automatically become more interested in this person- even if it a person that you have never met!
Showing that you like someone, and knowing whether or not the attraction is mutual, involves a combination of verbal and non-verbal communication skills.
When asked about flirting, most people are more worried about the verbal element: the problems of knowing what to say, finding the right words, etc.
In fact, body-language, tone of voice, etc. - is much more important, especially in the first stages of any flirtation.
When you first meet new people, their first impression of you will be based on your appearance and body-language, on your style of speaking and lastly on what you actually say.
Their body lanquage will tell you much more about their feelings towards you than the words they use. People show attitudes such as liking and disliking by the way they say it and the gestures, posture, and expressions that they use when they speak.
A typical polite greeting such as "pleased to meet you", for example, can mean anything from "I think you are attractive" to "Sorry, not interested in you", depending on the tone of voice, body language of the speaker.
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You don't have to be a rocket scientists to prove it. You already know that when you are told someone find you attractive, or hear that someone has said something nice or that they admired you, you automatically become more interested in this person- even if it a person that you have never met!
Showing that you like someone, and knowing whether or not the attraction is mutual, involves a combination of verbal and non-verbal communication skills.
When asked about flirting, most people are more worried about the verbal element: the problems of knowing what to say, finding the right words, etc.
In fact, body-language, tone of voice, etc. - is much more important, especially in the first stages of any flirtation.
When you first meet new people, their first impression of you will be based on your appearance and body-language, on your style of speaking and lastly on what you actually say.
Their body lanquage will tell you much more about their feelings towards you than the words they use. People show attitudes such as liking and disliking by the way they say it and the gestures, posture, and expressions that they use when they speak.
A typical polite greeting such as "pleased to meet you", for example, can mean anything from "I think you are attractive" to "Sorry, not interested in you", depending on the tone of voice, body language of the speaker.
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Tuesday
FLIRTING TIPS- WHO TO FLIRT WITH!
FLIRTING FOR FUN!
Basically, you can flirt with more or less anyone. An exchange of admiring glances or a bit of light-hearted flirtatious talk can brighten the day, raise self-esteem and help you make friends. Flirtation at this basic level is harmless fun, and no one could possibly have any objections.
Do not intentionally flirt with people who are married or attached. Most people in long-term relationships can cope with a bit of flirting, and may even benefit from
knowing that others find them or their partners attractive, but couples differ in their tolerance of flirtatious behaviour, and it is important to be alert to signs of discomfort or distress.
Men have a tendency to mistake friendly behaviour for sexual flirting. This is not because we are stupid or deluded, but because we see the world in more sexual terms than women.
Women need to be particularly careful to avoid sending ambiguous signals in interactions with married men, and men need to be aware that married/attached males may misinterpret friendly behaviour towards their wives/girlfriends. Otherwise, light-hearted flirtation is both harmless and enjoyable.
INTENTIONAL FLIRTING:
But flirting is also an essential element of the mate-selection process, and when you are "intentional flirting", rather than just 'flirting for fun', you need to be a bit more selective about your choice of target.
In looking for a mate, follow these two basic rules about who to flirt with and you will increase your chances of success and reduce embarrassing
rejections.
1. Do initiate flirtation with people of roughly the same level of attractiveness as yourself?
Women are more critical of their own physical appearance than man. This is partly because beauty standards for males are much less than for females, and a wider variety of shapes and features are considered attractive. But some men are also inclined to overestimate their attractiveness. If you are honest male, and do not consider yourself good-looking, remember that most men lack expertise social interaction, so polishing up your flirting skills could give you the edge over a more handsome rival.
2. Don't flirt with people who are unlikely to return your interest.
Even if you are not looking for a long-term mate, you will enjoy flirting more with someone who is interested in you. So it makes sense to approach people who are likely to see you as at least a possible partner, rather than those likely to dismiss you as unsuitable.
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Basically, you can flirt with more or less anyone. An exchange of admiring glances or a bit of light-hearted flirtatious talk can brighten the day, raise self-esteem and help you make friends. Flirtation at this basic level is harmless fun, and no one could possibly have any objections.
Do not intentionally flirt with people who are married or attached. Most people in long-term relationships can cope with a bit of flirting, and may even benefit from
knowing that others find them or their partners attractive, but couples differ in their tolerance of flirtatious behaviour, and it is important to be alert to signs of discomfort or distress.
Men have a tendency to mistake friendly behaviour for sexual flirting. This is not because we are stupid or deluded, but because we see the world in more sexual terms than women.
Women need to be particularly careful to avoid sending ambiguous signals in interactions with married men, and men need to be aware that married/attached males may misinterpret friendly behaviour towards their wives/girlfriends. Otherwise, light-hearted flirtation is both harmless and enjoyable.
INTENTIONAL FLIRTING:
But flirting is also an essential element of the mate-selection process, and when you are "intentional flirting", rather than just 'flirting for fun', you need to be a bit more selective about your choice of target.
In looking for a mate, follow these two basic rules about who to flirt with and you will increase your chances of success and reduce embarrassing
rejections.
1. Do initiate flirtation with people of roughly the same level of attractiveness as yourself?
Women are more critical of their own physical appearance than man. This is partly because beauty standards for males are much less than for females, and a wider variety of shapes and features are considered attractive. But some men are also inclined to overestimate their attractiveness. If you are honest male, and do not consider yourself good-looking, remember that most men lack expertise social interaction, so polishing up your flirting skills could give you the edge over a more handsome rival.
2. Don't flirt with people who are unlikely to return your interest.
Even if you are not looking for a long-term mate, you will enjoy flirting more with someone who is interested in you. So it makes sense to approach people who are likely to see you as at least a possible partner, rather than those likely to dismiss you as unsuitable.
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Sunday
FLIRTING AT WORK!
(Q) It is acceptable to flirt at work?
(A) At work, flirting is usually acceptable only in certain areas, with certain people and at specific times or occasions. Each workplace or working environment has its own unwritten rules regarding flirting.
(Q) If allowed, where can I flirt?
(A) In some companies, the coffee machine or cafeteria may be the area to flirt, other companies may frown on any flirting during office hours, or between managers and staff, while others basically have no such rules.
(Q) Are there any "unwritten rules" regarding flirting in the workplace?
(A) Careful watching your co-workers is the best way to discover the unspoken flirting rules of your own workplace, make sure that you watch the behaviour of the most highly regarded individuals in your company, not the people who do not have much of a future in the company.
(A) At work, flirting is usually acceptable only in certain areas, with certain people and at specific times or occasions. Each workplace or working environment has its own unwritten rules regarding flirting.
(Q) If allowed, where can I flirt?
(A) In some companies, the coffee machine or cafeteria may be the area to flirt, other companies may frown on any flirting during office hours, or between managers and staff, while others basically have no such rules.
(Q) Are there any "unwritten rules" regarding flirting in the workplace?
(A) Careful watching your co-workers is the best way to discover the unspoken flirting rules of your own workplace, make sure that you watch the behaviour of the most highly regarded individuals in your company, not the people who do not have much of a future in the company.
Saturday
WHERE TO FLIRT!
There are plenty of places, where flirting is socially acceptable! Places like celebrations, parties and probably best known of all..Bars!
Bars, night clubs, pubs etc are great places to practice your flirting at! In a bar, the best place to flirt is around the bar counter! This is known as the "public zone!" It is generally accepted to flirt in the "public zone"! You can start conversations, offer to buy a drink etc! The less socially acceptable places to flirt at in a bar are table or worse of all, the tables furthest from the bar!
Other socially accepted places to flirt are "places of Education" (believe it or not) and even grocery stores! In palces of education, enrolling in a course or evening class provides a better place for relaxed, enjoyable flirting than frequenting bars and night-clubs. In a "grocery store", the best place to flirt is to start a conversation with someone you are interested in while behind them in line. If the person keeps talking or looking back at you, they are interested!
Bars, night clubs, pubs etc are great places to practice your flirting at! In a bar, the best place to flirt is around the bar counter! This is known as the "public zone!" It is generally accepted to flirt in the "public zone"! You can start conversations, offer to buy a drink etc! The less socially acceptable places to flirt at in a bar are table or worse of all, the tables furthest from the bar!
Other socially accepted places to flirt are "places of Education" (believe it or not) and even grocery stores! In palces of education, enrolling in a course or evening class provides a better place for relaxed, enjoyable flirting than frequenting bars and night-clubs. In a "grocery store", the best place to flirt is to start a conversation with someone you are interested in while behind them in line. If the person keeps talking or looking back at you, they are interested!
Friday
HOW TO FLIRT
Whenever you walked into a grocery store, gas station, bank, club or wherever there are people, try to notice the people you would like to meet then make eye contact. First, look at the girl`s ring finger to see if she is married before you start to flirt with her. If she is a single and has caught you looking, then the next time she looks at you, make eye contact and smile. Smile, and tilt your head slightly to the left or right. This type of smile shows that you are really confident. Practice this smile. Practice this smile right now while you are reading this, also practice the smile while standing in front of a mirror.
Location, Location, Location
Locations where you will meet women is not as important as what you do when you meet them; facial expressions. Your facial expressions is something you take to every location and opportunity when flirting.
What really gets people attention is eye contact and smiling at each other. Use your "tilted" smile and compliment her and say you "had to come over and talk to her". When you are talking close to them, don`t talk loud, talk soft as if your tone of your alone suggests seduction.
Without saying a word your eyes should say "sex", but your demeanor is safe, warm and welcoming. Make your play and move away. Leave that person thinking about how much chemistry you created in a matter of seconds and they will crave it again. Please come back to see more articles of mine.
Locations where you will meet women is not as important as what you do when you meet them; facial expressions. Your facial expressions is something you take to every location and opportunity when flirting.
What really gets people attention is eye contact and smiling at each other. Use your "tilted" smile and compliment her and say you "had to come over and talk to her". When you are talking close to them, don`t talk loud, talk soft as if your tone of your alone suggests seduction.
Without saying a word your eyes should say "sex", but your demeanor is safe, warm and welcoming. Make your play and move away. Leave that person thinking about how much chemistry you created in a matter of seconds and they will crave it again. Please come back to see more articles of mine.
Thursday
DO PICK UP LINES WORK?
A very tough question to answer. It all depends on the person, the location and other factors, (amount of alcohol consumed...l.o.l.). Just treat the Pick up lines as introduction lines
I don`t think there is anybody who believes that all it takes is to use the Pick up lines by itself to actually get laid. If you believe that pick up lines are that magical, can I sell you North America?
You walk into a bar and sit down next to an attractive woman in a low cut blouse and mini skirt. You say to her, "Did it hurt? ... When you fell from heaven, did it hurt?"
She laughs and smiles. You smile back. Wow, you think, these Pick up lines are working... A few seconds of silence go by... What do I say now?, you asks yourself.
Suddenly nervous, you fumbles for some words, and, not knowing what to say next, you become embarrased, and turns your attention back to the dance floor...
For the most guys, this is where pick up lines will always fail...
SO WHAT DO YOU SAY NEXT?
So what do you say next? Let`s start with the basics.
Great pick up lines should accomplish one thing, and one thing only:
Break the ice, and get a good laugh.
The Best Pick Up Line are those lines that succeeds in breaking the ice with a good laugh.
From now on, think of good pick up lines as simple
FUNNY ICE-BREAKERS. Compare yourself to a great comedian. Your goal is to step up to the microphone and say an opening `pick up line` right from the start that the audience will find funny.
More than anything, your pick up lines need to be UNIQUE. And, 99% of the time, also NON-SEXUAL. You don`t want to come across as a pervert.
Once you`ve got the person you are interested in, laughing at your pick up lines, change to a more relaxed, confident conversation.
The impression you want to give her is that, you can be funny, but you`re not a full time comedian, which can become quickly annoying and boring.
Pick Up Lines Have One Goal - To Break The Ice
Summarizing what we`ve just talked about, you have to go from funny pick up lines that get women laughing, to a relaxed, confident conversation, that gets women talking with you.
You`ve just gone from pick up line to conversation that develops communication, trust, and attraction in less than 60 seconds.
I have just revealed a secret of "expert" pick up artists. Do you see how easy it can be with the right practice?
Conversation that leads to strong sexual attraction, is an easy art to master with study and practice, can be summed up by, "BE IN EVERY WORD." Pay attention to what she is saying to you, ask questions, and make her feel she is the most important person in the world!
"BE IN EVERY WORD." is probably the most powerful self-help phrase ever written for men on succeeding with women.
When it comes to pick up lines, you need to train yourself to BE IN EVERY WORD. Think in terms of a Hollywood actor.
"Be in every word" with stage presence, voice, and personality.
Follow your best Pick Up Line with relaxed conversation, and you now have the perfect combination to be highly successful in the dating game.
I don`t think there is anybody who believes that all it takes is to use the Pick up lines by itself to actually get laid. If you believe that pick up lines are that magical, can I sell you North America?
You walk into a bar and sit down next to an attractive woman in a low cut blouse and mini skirt. You say to her, "Did it hurt? ... When you fell from heaven, did it hurt?"
She laughs and smiles. You smile back. Wow, you think, these Pick up lines are working... A few seconds of silence go by... What do I say now?, you asks yourself.
Suddenly nervous, you fumbles for some words, and, not knowing what to say next, you become embarrased, and turns your attention back to the dance floor...
For the most guys, this is where pick up lines will always fail...
SO WHAT DO YOU SAY NEXT?
So what do you say next? Let`s start with the basics.
Great pick up lines should accomplish one thing, and one thing only:
Break the ice, and get a good laugh.
The Best Pick Up Line are those lines that succeeds in breaking the ice with a good laugh.
From now on, think of good pick up lines as simple
FUNNY ICE-BREAKERS. Compare yourself to a great comedian. Your goal is to step up to the microphone and say an opening `pick up line` right from the start that the audience will find funny.
More than anything, your pick up lines need to be UNIQUE. And, 99% of the time, also NON-SEXUAL. You don`t want to come across as a pervert.
Once you`ve got the person you are interested in, laughing at your pick up lines, change to a more relaxed, confident conversation.
The impression you want to give her is that, you can be funny, but you`re not a full time comedian, which can become quickly annoying and boring.
Pick Up Lines Have One Goal - To Break The Ice
Summarizing what we`ve just talked about, you have to go from funny pick up lines that get women laughing, to a relaxed, confident conversation, that gets women talking with you.
You`ve just gone from pick up line to conversation that develops communication, trust, and attraction in less than 60 seconds.
I have just revealed a secret of "expert" pick up artists. Do you see how easy it can be with the right practice?
Conversation that leads to strong sexual attraction, is an easy art to master with study and practice, can be summed up by, "BE IN EVERY WORD." Pay attention to what she is saying to you, ask questions, and make her feel she is the most important person in the world!
"BE IN EVERY WORD." is probably the most powerful self-help phrase ever written for men on succeeding with women.
When it comes to pick up lines, you need to train yourself to BE IN EVERY WORD. Think in terms of a Hollywood actor.
"Be in every word" with stage presence, voice, and personality.
Follow your best Pick Up Line with relaxed conversation, and you now have the perfect combination to be highly successful in the dating game.
Wednesday
SAMPLE PICK UP LINES
I kinda of like this idea of blogging. It is like keeping a journal.But I wonder..will other people read this..can I make money from a blog...what should I specialize in..maybe a Sample.."Is that the sun coming up... or is that just you lighting up my world?"or how to get a free website or blog
Yes, I am shamelessly promoting the sites that I have made from scratch..call it my ego, or the strong desire for public acclamation..really don't know and I really don't care..I just like putting my thoughts down in words..I guess that is all that I will share right now! I try to make up my mind what to do till then, have a good day!
Yes, I am shamelessly promoting the sites that I have made from scratch..call it my ego, or the strong desire for public acclamation..really don't know and I really don't care..I just like putting my thoughts down in words..I guess that is all that I will share right now! I try to make up my mind what to do till then, have a good day!
Tuesday
PICK UP LINES (1)
I finally broke down and decided to post my very first posting for this blog! ! I don't know what I am going to put into this Blog, maybe I put some links to free garbage, Nah, not my style! Maybe I will post my thoughts about George Bush, NAH! Maybe, I will share some Pick up lines from "one of the web's best kept secret" PICK UP LINES ,Nah I just keep that website a a secret! Maybe I should put some personal info about myself on my first post, Nah, not so early in our blog relationship, ! I guess I will call it quits right now and come back to blog in a day or so!
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