You don't have to be a rocket scientists to prove it. You already know that when you are told someone find you attractive, or hear that someone has said something nice or that they admired you, you automatically become more interested in this person- even if it a person that you have never met!
Showing that you like someone, and knowing whether or not the attraction is mutual, involves a combination of verbal and non-verbal communication skills.
When asked about flirting, most people are more worried about the verbal element: the problems of knowing what to say, finding the right words, etc.
In fact, body-language, tone of voice, etc. - is much more important, especially in the first stages of any flirtation.
When you first meet new people, their first impression of you will be based on your appearance and body-language, on your style of speaking and lastly on what you actually say.
Their body lanquage will tell you much more about their feelings towards you than the words they use. People show attitudes such as liking and disliking by the way they say it and the gestures, posture, and expressions that they use when they speak.
A typical polite greeting such as "pleased to meet you", for example, can mean anything from "I think you are attractive" to "Sorry, not interested in you", depending on the tone of voice, body language of the speaker.
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