FLIRTING TIPS- PARTING

PARTING: How you leave after flirting is important, and will determine your future relationship with the person you are flirting with.

Many flirtatious encounters are merely brief encounters that help boost the ego. These light-hearted encounters are part of normal social interaction, and only the pathetic or desperate would believe that flirting is the leds to marriage.

Flirting would not be important it did not occasionally serves some more long-term purpose like sex, reproduction, etc. While it is okay to practice our flirting skills just for the fun of it, there will be some occasions when we wish to take the relationship further, and a "Nice meeting you" will not do. This is when the parting words and gestures that you use is important.

People who are in sales knows that there is little point in establishing a great relationship with potential customers, attracting their interest, gaining their trust, etc., if they fail to get the customer to sign on the dotted line. To help them achieve this all-important goal, sales people are specifically trained in how to close a sale.

Likewise, if you are really attracted to your flirting partner, and want to see them again, none of the flirting skills you have read will be much use unless you can close effectively. In this case, your goal in closing is to meet them again.

At the risk of rejection, this is when you must be clear about your wishes. Subtle hints and positive body-language will help you to get to this point, and observing your flirting partner's reactions will tell you if you are going to be successful. By themselves these techniques cannot get you their phone number or a date! You have to ask for their phone number or a date by using the most effective flirting strategy which is simple honesty. You don't have to oversell the idea, just ask: "Would you like to meet again? Maybe sometime next week?" (the exact words are unimportant, but make it a clear request). If you are nervous making a date, say something like: "Perhaps we could meet again sometime - could I have your phone number?"

It is perfectly acceptable for women to take the initiative in asking men out. Men love it when women take the initiative. Men perceive women who take the initiative as more sexually available. To put it more bluntly, if a woman asks them out, they think they have a better chance of "getting lucky".

If you are female, and you don't want to give this impression, offer your own phone number. Say something like: "Maybe we could have a drink sometime? - here's my number". This makes it clear that you are interested, but still that he takes the initiative in asking for a date.

Flirting has been part of human behaviour for thousands of years, and men have always tended towards an over-optimistic interpretation of female signals, and females will always adjust their signals to encourage only selected males.


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FLIRTING TIPS- USING HUMOR

USING HUMOR: It is almost impossible to flirt successfully or enjoyably without the use of humour.Humour used properly can be a powerful flirting tool but it can easily backfire if abused or misused.

On the positive side, people that use humour are looked upon as more likeable. Trust and attraction increase when a light-hearted humour is used. The use of humour can reduce anxiety and establish a relaxed mood which helps a relationship to develop more rapidly. A slightly sexual joke or comment can raise the level of intimacy in a flirtatious conversation.

Inappropriate use of humour can ruin your chance for a successful romance. Making a sexual joke or comment too early, especially before a realtionship has been established, is the verbal equivalent of a bra snap. Males are more likely to make this kind of fatal mistake than women. Women, should be extra cautious in their use of sexual humour, as men are inclined to interpret this as a sign of sexual availability.

Humour is an essential part of flirting if you avoid causing offence or giving misleading signals. Flirting is by definition a light-hearted, playful form of social interaction. Flirting can lead to a serious, long-term relationship, but avoid too much seriousness in the early stages of flirting. The ability for light-hearted playfulness is equally important in the longer term relationships.

To help reduce tension and awkwardness in the early stages of flirting use humour. In my web page on opening lines, I advised the use of universally recognised conversation-starters, such as comments on the weather. Humour can help make beginning converstion more effective. A simple ironic twist such as "Beautiful day, isn't it?" during a blizzard or major rain storm will raise a smile if your target finds you attractive.

After mutual attraction has been established, the use of humour when flirting come naturally. It is a very natural instinct to try to make the other person smile. Constant reassurance that we are liked and appreciated, and smiles and laughter provide that reassurance by the person we like.

Playful teasing, is common when fliritng. Playful teasing or flirting helps partners increase the personal sharing between people and keeps the tone light-hearted and non-serious, and helps to escalate the level of disclosure and intimacy in a non-threatening manner. Males respond well to this form of humour, as it resembles the good-humoured exchanges of insults which are their normal means of expressing friendship among males.

The most common mistakes in flirting using is humour that overusing humour or monopolising the joke-telling, and failing to notice the person you are flirting with is bored or becoming frustrated. Women are more cautious in their use of humour, while men are more inclined to avoid heart-to-heart emotional seriousness.

If you feel you that you use excessive or inadequate use of humour. Watch carefully for signs of boredom or embarrassment - such as feet or body turning away from you, forced smiles, reduced eye-contact, reduced verbal attention-signals, fidgeting, defensive arm-crossing, etc. If you are overdoing the humour, these are your some of your signs to tone it down a bit. If you are being too serious, try to lighten up!




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