FLIRTING AT WORK!

(Q) It is acceptable to flirt at work?

(A) At work, flirting is usually acceptable only in certain areas, with certain people and at specific times or occasions. Each workplace or working environment has its own unwritten rules regarding flirting.

(Q) If allowed, where can I flirt?

(A) In some companies, the coffee machine or cafeteria may be the area to flirt, other companies may frown on any flirting during office hours, or between managers and staff, while others basically have no such rules.

(Q) Are there any "unwritten rules" regarding flirting in the workplace?

(A) Careful watching your co-workers is the best way to discover the unspoken flirting rules of your own workplace, make sure that you watch the behaviour of the most highly regarded individuals in your company, not the people who do not have much of a future in the company.

WHERE TO FLIRT!

There are plenty of places, where flirting is socially acceptable! Places like celebrations, parties and probably best known of all..Bars!

Bars, night clubs, pubs etc are great places to practice your flirting at! In a bar, the best place to flirt is around the bar counter! This is known as the "public zone!" It is generally accepted to flirt in the "public zone"! You can start conversations, offer to buy a drink etc! The less socially acceptable places to flirt at in a bar are table or worse of all, the tables furthest from the bar!

Other socially accepted places to flirt are "places of Education" (believe it or not) and even grocery stores! In palces of education, enrolling in a course or evening class provides a better place for relaxed, enjoyable flirting than frequenting bars and night-clubs. In a "grocery store", the best place to flirt is to start a conversation with someone you are interested in while behind them in line. If the person keeps talking or looking back at you, they are interested!

HOW TO FLIRT

Whenever you walked into a grocery store, gas station, bank, club or wherever there are people, try to notice the people you would like to meet then make eye contact. First, look at the girl`s ring finger to see if she is married before you start to flirt with her. If she is a single and has caught you looking, then the next time she looks at you, make eye contact and smile. Smile, and tilt your head slightly to the left or right. This type of smile shows that you are really confident. Practice this smile. Practice this smile right now while you are reading this, also practice the smile while standing in front of a mirror.

Location, Location, Location

Locations where you will meet women is not as important as what you do when you meet them; facial expressions. Your facial expressions is something you take to every location and opportunity when flirting.

What really gets people attention is eye contact and smiling at each other. Use your "tilted" smile and compliment her and say you "had to come over and talk to her". When you are talking close to them, don`t talk loud, talk soft as if your tone of your alone suggests seduction.

Without saying a word your eyes should say "sex", but your demeanor is safe, warm and welcoming. Make your play and move away. Leave that person thinking about how much chemistry you created in a matter of seconds and they will crave it again. Please come back to see more articles of mine.

DO PICK UP LINES WORK?

  A very tough question to answer. It all depends on the person, the location and other factors, (amount of alcohol consumed...l.o.l.). Just treat the Pick up lines as introduction lines

I don`t think there is anybody who believes that all it takes is to use the Pick up lines by itself to actually get laid. If you believe that pick up lines are that magical, can I sell you North America?

You walk into a bar and sit down next to an attractive woman in a low cut blouse and mini skirt. You say to her, "Did it hurt? ... When you fell from heaven, did it hurt?"

She laughs and smiles. You smile back. Wow, you think, these Pick up lines are working... A few seconds of silence go by... What do I say now?, you asks yourself.

Suddenly nervous, you fumbles for some words, and, not knowing what to say next, you become embarrased, and turns your attention back to the dance floor...

For the most guys, this is where pick up lines will always fail...

SO WHAT DO YOU SAY NEXT?

So what do you say next? Let`s start with the basics.

Great pick up lines should accomplish one thing, and one thing only:

Break the ice, and get a good laugh.

The Best Pick Up Line are those lines that succeeds in breaking the ice with a good laugh.

From now on, think of good pick up lines as simple
FUNNY ICE-BREAKERS. Compare yourself to a great comedian. Your goal is to step up to the microphone and say an opening `pick up line` right from the start that the audience will find funny.

More than anything, your pick up lines need to be UNIQUE. And, 99% of the time, also NON-SEXUAL. You don`t want to come across as a pervert.

Once you`ve got the person you are interested in, laughing at your pick up lines, change to a more relaxed, confident conversation.

The impression you want to give her is that, you can be funny, but you`re not a full time comedian, which can become quickly annoying and boring.

Pick Up Lines Have One Goal - To Break The Ice

Summarizing what we`ve just talked about, you have to go from funny pick up lines that get women laughing, to a relaxed, confident conversation, that gets women talking with you.

You`ve just gone from pick up line to conversation that develops communication, trust, and attraction in less than 60 seconds.

I have just revealed a secret of "expert" pick up artists. Do you see how easy it can be with the right practice?

Conversation that leads to strong sexual attraction, is an easy art to master with study and practice, can be summed up by, "BE IN EVERY WORD." Pay attention to what she is saying to you, ask questions, and make her feel she is the most important person in the world!

"BE IN EVERY WORD." is probably the most powerful self-help phrase ever written for men on succeeding with women.

When it comes to pick up lines, you need to train yourself to BE IN EVERY WORD. Think in terms of a Hollywood actor.

"Be in every word" with stage presence, voice, and personality.

Follow your best Pick Up Line with relaxed conversation, and you now have the perfect combination to be highly successful in the dating game.